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Annie Selak is a lay minister in the Roman Catholic Church and specializes in the question of young adults and vocation in the modern world.

Monday, December 21, 2015

On Anti-Muslim Sentiment in the United States

This post is a re-post of Women in Theology's Statement "On Anti-Muslim Sentiment in the United States." It is reblogged as a way of signing on to the letter.
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We, as Christian theologians in the public sphere, stand together in solidarity with Muslims in the United States in support of all Muslim citizens and residents of the United States.   We do so not despite our deep Christian faith, but precisely because of it.
Recent statements in the wake of the horrific actions of violence in Paris and San Bernardino have once again raised the threshold of acceptable actions in this country.  We reject and abhor any and all statements or actions that respond to these acts of violence with indiscriminate fear, suspicion, and hatred against our Muslim sisters and brothers.
We unequivocally oppose all acts of violence against Muslim places of worship.  We oppose all acts of violence–verbal, physical, or otherwise– against Muslims. We oppose all acts of violence against people perceived to be Muslim.  We oppose all attempts to establish any sort of religious test for citizenship or immigration status.  We oppose all attempts to deny the fact that Muslims have been present in the Americas since the 16th century, living as enslaved people, soldiers, politicians, leaders, sports heroes, rockstars, and faithful citizens.
As December is a time of holy preparation for Christ Who Redeems not through violence or fear, but through love, sacrifice, and hope, we call upon all Christians to be mindful of your neighbor in a special way this season.  Affirm your Muslim neighbors, who live in fear of the hateful stranger in a way we can never know.  Affirm and support those who have accepted Syrian refugees, even against the wishes of state authorities.  Affirm and support those who offer mercy, love, and support for those who flee persecution around the world.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

I've been preparing for this my whole life

Since becoming engaged, I've been targeted with tons of ads about Christian marriage.  Lots of "how to prepare to be the perfect wife for your future husband" and that type of stuff. At first I shrugged this off.  But then, it hit me: I HAVE been preparing for this my entire life.

Eating wedding cake, that is.

Please, oh please, read this first.

The goal of most Christian single women is to eat cake.  However, that does not mean you should wait until you're engaged to start preparing to eat cake.  Married women told me this years before I began to heed the advice.  However, once I realized God prepared us to receive blessings I realized I needed to prepare to receive the blessing of my cake.

I recently came across a song called "Joseph's Prayer of Adoption" by Danielle Rose.  Here's a salient line:

Will you take this [cake] as your own?
Will you give this [cake] a home?
All the love that he [sic] deserves I want him [sic] to receive
To know the Father's love in this family.

Doesn't that just give you a whole new perspective?  God has a cake just for you and God is preparing you to be a part of this new destiny.  With that being the case, we need to get ready!

But this doesn't come easy.  It takes work.  Here is my step by step guide for how to prepare for a Christian marriage (cake):

Step 1: Pray for your cake

Many Christian single women pray to eat cake and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.  But this step is not about praying to eat cake, but rather, praying FOR your cake.

I mean, really, if you aren't praying for your cake, then who is?

Step 2: Prepare

Eat all the cake.  Be adventurous.  Branch out.  Tres Leches? Deslish.  German chocolate?  All the feels.

I know this might be out there for some people, but you might even want to venture out into the wild world of pies.  #secularism

I even tried a paleo cake in this process.  Again, this preparation is for reals.

Step 3: Practice

Eat even more cake.

Hey, it's tough.  But do you want a good Christian cake or not?

Practice takes sacrifice.  You may have to buy new jeans because the old one's don't fit.  You may convert to leggings all day every day.  Nobody said this was easy.

Step 4: Praise

CAKE IS WONDERFUL! ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS ON SOCIAL MEDIA SHOULD KNOW THIS.  I highly encourage your use of instagram on this endeavor.

Step 5: Pray for a discerning spirit

You've been putting in the time and money.  When confronted with the wide selection of flavors, shapes, frosting types, how will you ever decide?  This is when you pray for a discerning spirit.  Have God walk with you through the flavor and frosting selection process.

You cannot do this on your own.  The sugar will take over.  Invite God in and make the decision together.

Step 6: Perceive

It is quite easy to be focused on the glorious day when you will eat the one that Christ has for you, but don't lose sight of the here and now.  Just because God is preparing you for wedding cake does not mean we are to do nothing in the meantime.

Eat cake.

Step 7: Pause

Have you ever wanted something so badly that you prayed and prayed for it, but when you got it you realized it wasn't all that great?  Most times in these cases, we finagle our way to get the thing rather than accepting God's no or waiting for God's best.

I implore you, don't do that with your wedding cake.  Wait on God. Who knows better how to prepare you for wedding cake than the One who designed wedding cake?

And that, my friends, is how you prepare for your wedding cake.

Special thanks to my friend Bridget for helping form this post.  I owe you some cake.